Archive | January, 2012

Love and Relationships by Samuel Teong

31 Jan

Thanks to Samuel Teong for his letter. He has won a pair of tickets to Yin and Yang conference worth $140 on Sat 11 February. We publish it unedited below. Get your free pair of tickets to Yin and Yang by emailing us at your love story before 9 February 2002 too!

Our relationship is something you won’t see everyday on TV or at the movies. Everything seemed boring as usual until I received a call from one of my friends who had lost contact for about 3 years, then she invited me to her housewarming party on Christmas Eve of the year 2009 and I met Miss Dorine Goh on that day.

On my side, I seriously liked her a lot! Therefore, I sent her back to home after playing mahjong till morning 8.00 a.m. so we exchanged contact numbers in the Comfort cab.

That time I only know that Dorine is a 34 years old girl. Like any other Singaporeans, she lives in a HDB flat and eats at coffee shop.

Few days later, we then communicated over the phone until I saw a friend request on Facebook. It was her adding me as a friend. She started putting her relationship with me upon my acceptance in Facebook.

I always like to view her account, checking photos and waiting for a message from her. I even memorised all her photo comments during that stage.

On the other hand I knew it was impossible to make her my girlfriend because I felt she was too beautiful to accept someone like me.

She looked so shy and nice with her long hair. After a long messaging period on Facebook and chatting over the phone, I had the courage to tell her that I wanted her to be my girlfriend because I felt there could be no one else for me, but I wasn’t brave enough to tell her that I had such serious thoughts and feelings for her so I just told her in keeping our relationship forever and do not leave me alone.

After a couple of weeks, we both figured out neither of us meant to leave the other because we were both serious about this relationship. There has been nothing we haven’t shared in months. We shared a lot of laughter, hugs, kisses and a love from deep inside, from the bottom of our hearts.

She gave the best ‘good morning’ kiss that I had ever received when I woke up one morning. I sent her a couple of gifts and I got to see how happy she was during that moment.

She has sacrificed a lot for us. She requested her father to let me stay at her favourite room with a monthly rental of $500.00 until 29 February 2012 because her father lately wanted to rent his 2 common rooms in Bedok South Road for $1,700.00 per month, but that didn’t keep her from dreaming together with me. We’ve been planning to meet as soon as possible everyday.

One of our biggest arguments was about this working issue. She hated some of the things going on in my workplace because I usually like to have some drinking sessions with colleagues, friends and schoolmates at KTV nite club most of the night. I listen to her daily complaints about it and I just replied her that I need to distress myself through drinking. She subsequently remained silent. How strong she is! Which couple can argue that much and still run back to each other in the end?

There were tears at the funeral of her mother in the month of June 2011 and my father’s departure on 1 January 2012. After she left for 5 Days 4 Nights vacation with her friend in December 2011, everything seemed so empty and meaningless. It was like I was the one who was being abandoned. I realised that loneliness is not a feeling caused by the lack of people around – it is a feeling caused by the lack of one person. I even cried in public and just hope that she will be fine coming back from Bangkok.

Another worriness that we are facing now is her family (Father, brother and nieces) did not support our relationship, so my family had started saying that it would be impossible for her to be happy in this kind of situation.

Some of my friends wanted us to end this relationship. I gave myself a thought that there’s only me and her in this world, we’re the only couple, we deserve to be happy, are meant to be together, now it was like the whole world was standing against us.

I was just a 32 years old boy; I had no house, no money and low salary job to make her happy. All I could give her was my love. When I was trying to hide things about my family, I was hurting her so much because my mother is the second wife of my father. We argued a lot and finally I told her what my family thinks about our relationship.

I really hope that those were the worst day of our lives I knew. We prayed every night to be together, not for a while but till the end of our lives. We tried to stay strong, but there were tears everyday.

Finally, thanks to my stubbornness, my mom and my girlfriend giving me nothing but love and making me stronger. I wish that everything will be settled down.

I tried not to make her worried about me and would always keep her informed even though I had so many problems to deal with.

This concluded that everyday we’re spending miserable life and I know that I cannot change her father’s perception, but I also know that “There’s a light that never goes out” whenever we feel alone because to die by her side would really be a heavenly way to die.

- Samuel Teong

Thanks to Samuel Teong for his letter. He has won a pair of tickets to Yin and Yang conference worth $140 on Sat 11 February. We publish it unedited below. Get your free pair of tickets to Yin and Yang by emailing us at your love story before 9 February 2002 too!

Day Trip: Condom Factory Tour + Sex Lesson + Shopping!

28 Jan

Day Trip: Condom Factory Tour + Sex Lesson + Shopping!

The condom is one of the oldest forms of contraception that found its place in history. The earliest known condoms were used by the Egyptians in the 13th century B.C. They made their condoms out of oiled animal bladders and intestines.

Condoms come in different shapes, types, sizes and flavours. Would you like to have the rare opportunity to tour a condom factory, just across the Causeway? How about learning some new sex tricks and tips from me? What if transport, food and souvenirs were included?

Date: Sat 3 March 2012

Time: 7a.m. – 6p.m.

Fee: S$80 per person (includes halal meals)

Venue: Meeting point – United Square (Novena MRT)

Need: 1) Be 21 years and above; 2) Your passport with minimum six month’s validity; 3) Cash for shopping; 4) A sunny disposition!

Your seat will only be confirmed after you make full payment.

7:00 AM Pick-up from United Square, S’pore
8:30 AM Arrival at Condom Factory (Medical-Latex)
8:45 AM Welcome and registration at canteen
9:00 AM Introduction and agenda + light snacks
9:30 AM Presentation from MLD
10:15 AM Plant Tour
12:00 PM Lunch (Vegetarian / non-vegetarian / special need – please advise)
1:00 PM Training session by Eros Coaching
3:00 PM Transfer to Holiday Plaza / City Square – shopping
6:00 PM Transfer to United Square, S’pore

“This was a very enlightening day trip as I witnessed first-hand the painstaking process that goes behind making a condom – from the creation of those thin rubber sheaths to how they’re finally packaged. You won’t believe the amount of work that goes into ensuring sure your rubbers are safe-to-use! Props to the factory staff who were knowledgeable and could answer our many questions – and even gave us a little “hands on” exercise in testing the condoms! Martha’s workshop (conducted in the factory) was also a treat because she combined the best of her hand job and blow job techniques in a no-holds-barred two-hour session. We also got to pick this sexpert’s brains, by asking her all our pressing bedroom questions that we would’ve been too shy to voice out in any other situation. Overall, a very informative yet fun day!” – J.T.

“The visit to the condom factory was interesting and informative, from the knowledge of the manufacturing process, to quality testing, and the subsequent training session. We even had the privilege to try our hands at one of the testing stations. The factory staff made us feel very welcomed, and also shared their experiences in the business. The small group allowed a cozy and comfortable environment, for us to ask our lingering doubts about all our sex related questions. It was no doubt an insightful day!” – Anonymous lady

“The visit was an interesting experience as we got to understand the various stages of manufacturing and testing condoms to ensure that they fulfill the high standards expected of such an important product. Dr. Martha Lee shared many useful tips and techniques with the class at the end of the tour and I would say that visiting a condom factory is a one of a kind experience – we even got to try out parts of the condom testing procedure!” – Anonymous male

This may be your once-in-a-lifetime chance to actually visit a condom factory, and be able to talk about it! Learn lots, Be smart!

Yin and Yang Conference: Making Love for a Lifetime

27 Jan

Yin and Yang Conference: Making Love for a Lifetime

As part of Febulove, we are pleased to introduce our one-day conference:

Yin and Yang: Making Love for a Lifetime

Date: Sat 11 February 2012
Time: 9 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Venue: HDB Hub, Punggol Room

An event that approaches a couple’s sexual relationship in a whole new light. From knowing and appreciating the yin and the yang of each other’s sexual anatomies and overcoming obstacles to sexual fulfillment to learning skills to improve your adventures in the bedroom, this one-day encounter aims to impart sexual information, knowledge, and skills for couples to be able to more confidently and authentically connect with each other sexually. All the sessions promise not only enhancement of sexual pleasure deepening of intimate relationships.

You will learn to:
1. Differentiate and appreciate the differences between the female and male sexual anatomy
2. Identify different sexual difficulties and what you can do about them
3. Practice conscious connecting through touch
4. Sexual skills you can apply immediately in the bedroom!

Talk 1: Nuts and bolts: About male and female sexual anatomy (9:30a.m. – 10:30a.m.)
Talk 2: Sexual difficulties and what you can do about them (11:30a.m. – 12:30p.m.)
Talk 3: Conscious connecting through touch (1:30p.m. – 2:30p.m.)
Talk 4: Sexual techniques: How to make love for a lifetime (3p.m. – 4p.m.)

About the speaker:

Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Lee is the only Clinical Sexologist in Singapore who has a doctorate in human sexuality. Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, Men’s Health Malaysia, Durex Singapore Facebook page as well as Durex Malaysia Facebook page. She has a weekly column with and blogs for Good Vibrations Magazine. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. For her full profile, click here.


  • S$30 per talk per person;
  • S$88 per person, for full-day pass;
  • S$140 for a couple, for a full-day pass

Venue: Punggol Room, HDB Hub Convention Centre
Basement 1, HDB Hub, 480 Lorong 6 Toa Payoh, Singapore 310480 (Nearest MRT: Toa Payoh)

Payment to be made before each talk.

For enquiries, please email

Also, to find out about the other Febulove workshops, click here!

Febulove 2012 Workshops

26 Jan

Febulove 2012 Workshops

As part of our Febulove campaign in February, these are our workshops which you can sign up for:

Fri 3 Feb – Pillow Talk: Erotic talk (7.30p.m. – 9.30p.m.)

For the ladies - This is a NEW course intended to spice up your conversations! Erotic talk can improve communication and intimacy, deepening you and your partner’s connection. It supplies variety and excitement to a stagnant relationship! It opens up a world of new erotic possibilities for couples by expressing each other’s needs and wants in all possible ways and then working (and playing) together to achieve them. It is the art of imagination and fantasy, tapping into the most important sex organ in the body: the brain.

You will learn:

  • Benefits of erotic talk (Why you should do it)
  • Differentiate between male and female fantasies, and how to better tailor your erotic messages!
  • How to engage in sensual talk through your sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch
  • How to get your partner to talk erotically


Tues 7 Feb – Best of Eros (7:30p.m. – 8:30p.m)

For the ladies – For the first time and by popular request! Release your inhibitions and ask your questions! This express, straight-to-the-point course for the busy woman who just needs to cut through the chase, and only wants to know the best of hand and blow job techniques just in time for Valentine’s Day!

You will learn:

  • Why men love receiving a blow job
  • Best hand and blow job techniques (More than 10!)
  • To perfect those skills through practising on a carrot!


Fri 17 Feb – Conscious Connecting (7.30p.m. – 9.30p.m.)

For singles/ couples - Do you have difficulty asking for what you want in bed? Do you have a desire to be a better lover for your partner? How exactly can you connect intimately with your partner? All these questions and more will be answered in this clothes-on workshop that explores the four different types of touch: Giving, Receiving, Absorbing, and Allowing. Understanding and practicing these distinctions will change the way you experience touch and shift your personal, and even professional, life fundamentally. So allow yourself and your man to connect in a more intimate level and feel the change in your relationship. (You are strongly encouraged to attend this workshop with your partner or friend.)


Tues 21 Feb – Sizzling Strokes (7.30p.m. – 9.30p.m.)

Only for the ladies - Previously titled “Different Strokes” and conducted seventy times since September 2011, this proven workshop on tips and techniques for giving guys a happy ending with your hands will definitely have your man sizzling. Taught using online videos, a few fun sex toys, and even an easy-to-follow handout with line drawing, “Sizzling Strokes” will have your man wanting you more than ever, even Her World (Feb 2010) magazine agrees! Testimonials here.

You will learn:

  • Sexual Response Cycle – Stages Our Body Goes Through During Sex
  • Male anatomy – Knowing his body
  • The importance of breathing
  • How to do a genital erotic massage -More than 22 different techniques!
  • What to use during the massage


Fri 24 Feb – Pucker Up: Kissing (7.30p.m. – 9.30p.m.)

For singles/ couples:

“What is a kiss? Why this, as some approve: the sure, sweet cement, glue and lime of love.” – Robert Herrick

Ever heard of the Candy Kiss, Upside-Down Kiss, French Kiss, Earlobe Kiss, or Nip Kiss? You will once you join the workshop that turns KISSING into an art that you can master! All you need is the willingness to explore the possibilities and you will definitely find yourself enjoying new, fun, and flirty kisses with your partner. Learning these creative kisses will definitely make your partner want to pucker up! (Handout provided.)

You will learn:

  • Kissing Trivia
  • Do’s and Don’ts to Kissing
  • Kissing Techniques


Tues, 28 Feb – Funtastic Fellatio (7.30p.m. – 9.30p.m.)

Only for ladies – Give him orgasms he will never forget! Learn techniques, positions, and physiology for intensified orgasms while going down on him. Taught using online videos and carrots (yes, you read that right, carrots!), this two-hour fun workshop will teach you all there is to know about giving your man the best blow job. Handout provided. Click here for a review. Click here for testimonials. Conducted 40 times as of September 2011, this workshop was previously titled ‘Fabulous Fellatio’.

You will learn:

  • How to name the different parts of the male penis
  • Why men love receiving a blow job; why women resist giving one
  • The eight ways men orgasm
  • The mental mindset when it comes to giving a blowjob
  • Basics when it comes to giving a blow job
  • The different sexual positions
  • Twenty different blow job techniques from simple to advanced!


About the trainer:

Founder of Eros Coaching, Dr. Martha Lee is the only Clinical Sexologist in Singapore who has a doctorate in human sexuality. Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, Men’s Health Malaysia, Durex Singapore Facebook page as well as Durex Malaysia Facebook page. She has a weekly column with and blogs for Good Vibrations Magazine. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. For her full profile, click here.

Fee per workshop:

  • S$60 per person (Usual S$75 per person);
  • S$50 per person if you sign up and pay with a partner/ friend;
  • S$50 per person if you sign up for two or more workshops!

Venue for all workshops: Wasabi Yoga – 54C South Bridge Road, Singapore 058685


MRT Station: Clarke Quay or Raffles Place
Bus Numbers: 51, 63, 80, 124, 145, 166, 174, 174e, 197 (South Bridge Rd-boat quay stop)
2, 12, 33, 51, 54, 63, 80, 124, 145, 147, 166, 197 (New Bridge Rd & Eu Tong Sen St stop)

Payment to be made before each workshop via bank transfer or paypal.

For enquiries, please email

Also, to find out about our Yin and Yang Conference on Sat 11 February 2012, click here!

Wanted: Your Love Story

20 Jan

Wanted: Your Love Story

Did you know that you could get your love dedication or story posted on this page?

Submit your dedication or story via email here, and you could stand to win some attractive prizes! There is no word limit and you can choose to use your pet name or be completely anonymous!

Tired of complaints of being unromantic? Make this a Valentine’s Day both of you won’t forget! There is absolutely no cost and hence no excuses! Get cracking now!

Freebies by Eros Coaching

8 Jan

Freebies by Eros Coaching

Get freebies found on Eros Coaching’s website by clicking here!

They include:


Online STI Quiz

Quiz: Could You Have Vulvodynia?

Don’t miss out on the tons of media articles here!

Get educated. Read product reviews here!

Get resources for yourself here!